Safety
Most dates go just fine. A few simple habits make the rest safer too — here's the honest guide we give every member.
Use a strong, unique password — and never share it. We will never ask for it. Think before posting details on your profile: no home addresses, workplace names or financial information.
Enjoy getting to know people — but keep an eye out for red flags: anyone asking for money, pushing you to an external link, declaring love before you've even met, or a story that keeps changing. One click in the member area reports and blocks them.
Meet in a public place first and tell a friend where you're going. Arrange your own transport. Never send money or financial help to someone you haven't met. Keep a clear head, and trust your gut — leaving early is always allowed, no explanations needed.
Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time — online and offline. Pressure or harassment has no place here; reported profiles are reviewed and removed when they break the rules.
Both live inside the member area: log in, and every profile and conversation has a report button. The moderation team reviews every report.
grannydating.xxx is strictly for adults. Reports involving minors are treated with the highest priority.
Only share photos you would be comfortable seeing in public, and avoid anything that identifies your home, workplace or family. Never send intimate images to someone you have not met — they can be copied and used against you, and asking for them early is a red flag.
No genuine date needs your bank details, gift cards, crypto or a "small loan" before you meet. Requests like these are the most common romance scam pattern. Stop, report the profile and do not send anything — however convincing the story is.
Use the report and block buttons in the member area — every report is reviewed. For urgent danger, contact your local emergency services first. For account or billing problems, open a ticket through Contact Support; for anything involving a crime, report it to the police and keep the messages as evidence.
This page is general safety advice. For help with your account (billing, profile, login), log in — support is available inside the member area.